The Painful Twin Flame Separation Anxiety

Twin flame separation is one of the most painful things you will ever have to go through but you will at some point have to go through it and eventually get over it. Whether it is in this life or in another, it will happen.

Twin flame separation is something that we, for the most part, do not like to talk about. We all assume that if something is meant to be it will be but that in some lives is not quite the case. While we are drawn to one another, we are on our own paths and facing our own obstacles that can sometimes tear us apart from one another in some of the hardest to face and painful  ways.

Now, for those who do not know Twin Flames are basically mirrored souls,  soulmates. We all have a Twin Flame and the connection we have with our twin is called the Twin Flame Connection or the twin flame relationship. Your twin flame is a physical manifestation of your soul (the same soul you carry) in this world. Rather than incarnating or reincarnating one time your soul manifested twice in this realm. And you may return 'till your issues are resolved.

Because of how pure,  intense and powerful this eternal unconditional true love connection is, being with our twins in the ways we want to be is complicated at best. That being said, just because you and your twin are not together,  right now   or have been separated,  for a time does not mean you are no longer connected. That connection is something that you can never lose. It binds you and your twin together by a thread until the end of time and then some. So you just need to think about them to communicate.

In regards to twin flame separation and what it is The Twin Flame Tribe,  wrote as follows on their website:

Although I don’t believe in fixed stages that you have to go through consecutively to reach Twin Flame union, it can be that you have reached a place in your Twin Flame lifetime  journey where the running and chasing stopped, ceased and dedisted,  but you are also not together or on the other end of the scaleable universe to walk away from the connection.

You are in no man’s land, you are on nowhere land,  you still haven’t found the EJECT Button, that will catapult you out of this journey (I’m sorry, I don’t think there is one). Yet at the same time, the connection you had with your twin seems dead in the physical reality,  you're in. At least when you were chasing and the other person was running, you would have these sweet moments of reassurance in between, where your twin would let you know (be it reluctantly maybe) they were still in it together with you.
Unfortunately,  though today its been automated,  one touches base by texting, and posts in passing on the ethernet. 

When you are in Twin Flame Separation, it seems like ALL IS LOST and that the connection that you had felt was an illusion, to begin with or all lies,  since the beginning. It might very well be that your twin has actually told you that they don’t love you any more,  can't wait for you to die and must leave while they're young or deny the connection in any other way, which in any other relationship would be your cue to start over,  move on. However, in this case, your biggest problem is that you feel and I can hear Adele singing in my head while I type this ‘That for me it isn’t over…‘ or Straylight

"I'm Through With The Past (But The Past Isn't Through With Me! )"

When you can relate to this and you are in a Twin Flame relationship, which is a big word because when you are at this possible part of the journey there seems to not even be a mutual connection anymore, let alone any kind of relationship. It just feels like you are stuck and can’t let go, while the other person has seemed to have long moved on and started over.

Just because it feels like everything is falling apart does not mean you will never see your twin again. He or she is just working on things that need to be worked on and you should do the same. Whether you’re the runner or the chaser, this whole thing should make it clear that you and your twin have a lot to accomplish before becoming one again is possible. One caveat,  sometimes  they return to see if you're still stupid,  word to the wise.
What some folks need to learn is that people are meant to be loved,  not used. In which case they love you 'till the benefits run out in this case they move on and start over.

When the two of you are ready there will be a powerful reunion and looking forward to that is something you can hold with you for as long as is needed. Work to love yourself more, be the best person you can be, higher your own vibrations, enjoy life and heal properly over time. Through all of these things, you can and will work to also heal your twin flame connection as a whole.

For more information on all of this please check out the video below. While it is a hard concept to grasp twins need to be apart so that they can truly appreciate their time together. You will find one another when you least expect it, do not give up hope.