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Thursday, May 23, 2019

Fwd: Trying to explain what I do to my family...










Hey hun!

I hope you've been having a great day so far. :)

Personally, I find it really hard to explain exactly I do to my parents. Just the other day I was trying to open an investment account with my bank and I told the person I was a blogger. HAHA.HEHE. 
HAHA.

She gave me a sarcastic laugh because the older generation perceive bloggers to be giggly teenagers who write about anything cute and funny. How far is that from the truth, right? ;)

Do you find it hard to explain your online blog + biz to your family, fans, followers, and friends too?

Honestly, I would say that my family and friends are some of the most open-minded people in the world. They value entrepreneurship and business. They say, .... "Your site, just sits there and makes money that's not a biz"....

For instance, my cousin opened her own chain of music school to teach piano, as music is her passion, another teaches dance and one other does martial arts. Go figure!

Many of my college friends started or are still working on start-ups, some of which are successful. Cafes, apps, etc, you name it. Generally, they are applauded for being entrepreneurial and ambitious.

Yet, I find it hard to explain what I do to people IRL

Coming from an Asian country, the culture of starting an online business is almost unheard of. Freelance, yes. Blogger, yes. Corporate consulting, yes.

Online courses, no. Coaching, no. 
Online consulting, no. Email funnels, no. Affiliate marketing, no. Virtual Anything, NO! NO!

I vacillate between, "I do digital marketing", to "I'm a blogger", and so on and so forth...

A quick tip

Many of my clients and students face the same issue, so I thought I would give you some tips.

One quick tip I have for you is to frame your online career in a way that's easy to understand for people, depending on who you meet. Explain in terms that they would understand.

For instance, I tell my friends that I do small business consulting (instead of coaching). I tell my parents that I do marketing (rather than saying I'm a digital marketing strategist). And so on...

If you still get dissed (this happens more regularly than you think), my next tip is this: Don't get too hung up about it. Show your family the monetary results. I've found from experience that almost everyone goes from skeptical to curious/ interested when you actually show them the monetary results of your labor ;)

For me, my family and I have reached a point of, "I don't really understand what you do, but I will support you regardless". I'm pretty grateful for their support.

I hope the tips help! If you happen to have really unsupportive family and peers, don't worry about it. You do you. Let them do their them. Also, #showthemthemoolah (when the day comes) and they will likely be more supportive. Seriously.
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That's all for now, folks.

Have a great week ahead. Stay amazing, friend.


God bless & respect the side hustle hard,
Jon-jon


---------- Forwarded message ---------
From: Raelyn Tan <raelyn@raelyntan.com>
Date: Thu, May 23, 2019 at 11:46 AM
Subject: Trying to explain what I do to my family...
To: jon <joaoa.dsilva2019@gmail.com>  

It's Raelyn here.    raelyntan.com :)

New to the community? I'm Raelyn from raelyntan.com. I've been blogging for 10 years, have an academic background in marketing, did content marketing and social media in the corporate world, and now have a following of about 50k+ bloggers & online entrepreneurs. I live and breathe online entrepreneurship & digital marketing and am privileged to make a full-time income with my online blog + business. Great to meet you! :)
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